Have you ever been surprised by the amount of alcohol you drank or substances you used (Marijuana, Oxycontin, Valium, Cocaine, etc.) because it was greater than you thought you would use?

Have you ever had trouble getting to school or work on time or not been at your best because of your alcohol or substance use?

Have you ever felt depressed, ashamed and/or remorseful after drinking alcohol and/or using substances yet continued using?

Have you driven a car after drinking alcohol or using substances?

Do you experience cravings or preoccupation related to alcohol or substances?

Have you experienced any of the following after a period of not drinking alcohol or abstaining from using substances: irritability, nervousness, sleep difficulty, depressed mood, fatigue, increased hand tremor, change in appetite, nausea, muscle aches or diarrhea?

Has a doctor ever suggested you limit your alcohol intake and you found yourself unable to comply with her/his advice?

Do you find yourself drinking more alcohol or using more substances than you used to but not becoming significantly more intoxicated?

Have you had disagreements with family or friends about your use of alcohol or substances?

Have you missed work, school or family obligations because of your alcohol or substance use?

Have you sometimes found yourself staying longer at a bar, restaurant or party than you planned because you were drinking alcohol or using substances?

Have you ever tried to stop drinking alcohol or using substances or tried to control the amount you drink or use?

Have you noticed an unexplained drop in grades?

Has your son or daughter changed his/her set of friends and avoided introducing them to you?

Have you noticed your teen developing exaggerated mood swings - becoming easily upset or angry or not being as happy as they once were?

Has there been a change in level of your teen’s compliance/defiance – pushing limits, not doing chores, missing curfew, staying out late without calling, etc.?

Has your teen become more secretive – sharing little or none of his/her personal life, locking his/her door, keeping a lock-box, etc.?

Have you noticed your child spending more time alone or in his/her room than usual?

Do you notice your son or daughter sleeping more than usual?

Has your child’s physical hygiene declined?

Has your child experienced a drastic weight loss or gain?

Have you been informed that your son or daughter is skipping class, sleeping in school, not doing homework or declining in performance?

Has your son or daughter begun to avoid family meals, religious activities, recreational trips, previously enjoyed activities?

Has your teen begun selling possessions or does he/she seem to always have money without an identifiable source?

Are you unsure about what is normal related to a loved ones alcohol or substance (Marijuana, Oxycontin, Valium, Cocaine, etc.) use?

Is your loved one defensive when you try to discuss his/her alcohol or substance use?

Does your loved one ask you to cover for him/her at work or school because alcohol or substance use has interfered with his/her attendance?

Have you discovered alcohol or substances hidden in your home?

Has your loved one ever driven under the influence of alcohol or substances?

Does a loved one exhibit a “Jekyll and Hyde” personality when drinking alcohol or using substances?

Has your loved one ever promised to stop drinking alcohol or stop using substances only to return to drinking or using?

Does your loved one spend a lot of time at a bar/club with his/her friends?

Does your loved one suffer from frequent hangovers?

Have you noticed your loved one has increased the amount of alcohol he/she drinks?

Has a loved one ever experienced the following after a period of not drinking alcohol or abstaining from using substances: irritability, nervousness, sleep difficulty, depressed mood, fatigue, increased hand tremor, change in appetite, nausea, muscle aches or diarrhea?

Does your loved one crave alcohol or substances?